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Start slowly- Don't forget that your aim is to bring back the lost sexual desire, for this first of all you need to work on the base level. It is quite challenging to bring any external agent into your relationship. Start using some erotic oils and lotions, by doing this you will open the door for other external agents like sex toys to be added in your near future. In this way you are simply starting with simple things to introduce an external or third element into your relationship.

The groundwork- Remember your ground work will set the building for further experiments via sex toys, hence it is very essential to go with the right foundation. What you are planning here is to launch a real sex toys into your relationship, which will help in making your relation joyous, full of romance, thrill and excitement. But it should be simple, gentle and sexy kind of toy. In short the sex toy should not be any kind of contraption or equipment, otherwise your partner will be sacred and whole idea of romance will be in bin. Hence the foundation should be something very simple and not a scary kind of big device.